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Our Harness 101 is a basic introduction to the different forms harnesses come in. I always say you can’t get what’s right for you unless you know what’s out there.There’s so many styles to choose from to match the aesthetic, physical needs, and the comfort levels anybody might have.
Whether you want a harness on the pelvis in a thong, jock strap, brief, or boxer style. Or if you want a harness elsewhere: chest, thigh, boot, chin, etc, there are many options to look into.